How to smooth out a tough relationship?

  In life, we all run into situation that is hard to deal with.  Screaming or Pulling our hairs won't do any good.  Should we accept it as is and move on?  Or there is a better way to boost up harmony and compassion toward others?  Please see Master's guidance as below. "First, reality is reality.  Reality is just like your hands.  Your hands are so rough, not smooth.  What can you do?  Buy some good lotions and take a good care of your hands.  It is the same thing, situation is here and reality is here.  Accept it, first; then realize it and practice it.  Remember this, change yourself and you change everything.  If the situation is so difficult, if you know how to apply my teachings, at least, you can make your mind calm.  Later on, if you know how to practice more, realize the teaching more, apply it into daily life and deal with the person, gradually you change the situation and you change the relationship.  No matter what level you benefit from the teachings, that is benefit.  Remember that reality is here, no more and no less.  We can only accept it.  Even if this is so hard, what can you do?  Buy some lotions to smooth the relationship."

Comments (3)

  1. Allison Yang:
    Apr 30, 2011 at 10:59 PM


  2. Frank:
    Jun 02, 2011 at 07:32 PM

    What a smart way of thinking; we can all benefit from this teaching.

    1. naishin:
      Jun 07, 2011 at 08:26 PM

      Thanks for the feedback! Please visit us often.

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